Oct (J) and Dec (L), are perfectly acceptable dates for a Jan. build car. Heads and blocks often carry different dates. I would think that late in Oct and early in Dec would be a preferable mix, but not required. Remember, Chevrolet wasn't building show cars, no one was looking at casting dates as they pulled parts off a shelf to put them together.
The August dates on the carbs is probably a little early, but possible. The NCRS generally allows 6 months prior to the car build date as an acceptable parts date. August obviously is within the 6 month window.
I wouldn't shy away from these parts because of the dates.